{ my life less ordinary }
Motherhood and Make Believe and Grief and Happiness and Pretty Things.
Wednesday, August 25, 2010
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
Guess who….
Friday, April 30, 2010
Five Question Friday...

1.If you could, would you go back to high school?
No
Nope
Never
Ummm…let me think about that…Still NO!
2. If a genie appeared and granted you two wishes, what would they be? (And, no saying "more wishes".)
I wish to be a billionaire…to be able to help alleviate some of the poverty in this country, to give many a warm place to sleep at night, enough food so that mommy’s don’t have to worry that their children are going to bed hungry…just help out with the things that so many of us take for granted!
I wish that all children go into puberty with balanced hormones, and that teenagers DID actually know everything!!!
3. What kids show do you secretly like?
I love the cartoon show called “It’s a kind of magic!”
A fairy for a mother, an Ogre for a father…come on, life can’t get more interesting than that!
4. What is your beverage of choice?
Coke light…It runs in my veins!
5. What is something that you would change about yourself (or are working to change in yourself)?
I say things without thinking….and many, many times I wish that I had just bitten my tongue or taken 30 seconds to think about what I wanted to say, before blurting out the first thing that came to mind…
Now people, especially when they don’t really know me, think I’m a bit slow….It sometimes take me quite a while to answer even a simple question!
(Hence the 30 sec rule!)
Monday, April 19, 2010
Mom 'n Me Monday....

I just can't seem get this "self portrait" photo taking thing right...
So here we have a little bit of me and and a littler bit of Tegan...

Friday, April 16, 2010
Five Question Friday...

1.What words do you use on your blog/online that you don't use in real life?
LOL – cause in real life I just actually laugh out laugh!
2.Do you still write checks?
Sometimes, if the systems are down in a shop and I can’t use my cards, and frequently at my hairdresser…she doesn’t take cards, for some unknown reason, and I never carry cash with me…so it’s back to the good old checks!
3.Who was your favourite President and why?
I loved Ronald Reagan…He was more old school, and had a different moral and value system that I liked and could relate to.
I live in South Africa, so what I know is all second hand info from reading the newspaper and watching the news…but what I do know about him, I like a whole lot better than his successors so far!
4.Are you a yeller?
I cannot believe I'm going to admit this out LOUD...
Absolutely…It’s my way of venting and getting my point across loudly!
5.Have you ever dumpster dived?
Never, I hate it with a passion, and garage sales, and even second hand shops and Antique shops….
Other people’s junk is not my treasure!
I don’t do hand me down clothes either, unless it’s from my oldest to my youngest, or from my brother to my kids…His hand me downs are not old, just out of fashion for him, and my boys aren’t as fashion conscious!
Am I the only one…
Thursday, April 15, 2010
I Believe...
I came across this gorgeous poem on another blog called Kids - A connection for Inspiration and just had to share it…
I Believe...
That just because two people argue,
it doesn't mean they don't love each other.
And just because they don't argue,
it doesn't mean they do love each other.
I Believe...
That we don't have to change friends if
we understand that friends change.
I Believe....
That no matter how good a friend is,
they're going to hurt you every once in a while
and you must forgive them for that.
I Believe...
That true friendship continues to grow,
even over the longest distance.
Same goes for true love.
I Believe...
That you can do something in an instant,
that will give you heartache for life.
I Believe....
That it's taking me a long time
to become the person I want to be.
I Believe...
That you should always leave loved ones with loving words.
It may be the last time you see them.
I Believe....
That you can keep going long after you think you can't.
I Believe....
That we are responsible for what we do,
no matter how we feel.
I Believe...
That either you control your attitude or it controls you.
I Believe...
That heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs
to be done, regardless of the consequences.
I Believe....
That my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.
I Believe....
That sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down,
will be the ones to help you get back up.
I Believe...
That sometimes when I'm angry
I have the right to be angry,
But that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.
I Believe....
That maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had
and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many
birthdays you've celebrated.
I Believe....
That it isn't always enough, to be forgiven by others.
Sometimes, you have to learn to forgive yourself.
I Believe...
That no matter how bad your heart is broken,
the world doesn't stop for your grief.
I Believe....
That our background and circumstances
may have influenced who we are,
but, we are responsible for who we become.
I Believe...
That you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret.
It could change your life Forever.
I Believe....
Two people can look at the exact same thing
and see something totally different.
I Believe...
That your life can be changed in a matter of hours
by people who don't even know you.
I Believe...
That even when you think you have no more to give,
when a friend cries out to you -
you will find the strength to help.
I Believe...
That credentials on the wall
do not make you a decent human being.
I Believe...
That the people you care about most in life
are taken from you too soon.
I Believe...
That the happiest of people don't necessarily
have the best of everything...
They just make the most of everything they have.
I Believe...
That just because two people argue,
it doesn't mean they don't love each other.
And just because they don't argue,
it doesn't mean they do love each other.
I Believe...
That we don't have to change friends if
we understand that friends change.
I Believe....
That no matter how good a friend is,
they're going to hurt you every once in a while
and you must forgive them for that.
I Believe...
That true friendship continues to grow,
even over the longest distance.
Same goes for true love.
I Believe...
That you can do something in an instant,
that will give you heartache for life.
I Believe....
That it's taking me a long time
to become the person I want to be.
I Believe...
That you should always leave loved ones with loving words.
It may be the last time you see them.
I Believe....
That you can keep going long after you think you can't.
I Believe....
That we are responsible for what we do,
no matter how we feel.
I Believe...
That either you control your attitude or it controls you.
I Believe...
That heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs
to be done, regardless of the consequences.
I Believe....
That my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.
I Believe....
That sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down,
will be the ones to help you get back up.
I Believe...
That sometimes when I'm angry
I have the right to be angry,
But that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.
I Believe....
That maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had
and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many
birthdays you've celebrated.
I Believe....
That it isn't always enough, to be forgiven by others.
Sometimes, you have to learn to forgive yourself.
I Believe...
That no matter how bad your heart is broken,
the world doesn't stop for your grief.
I Believe....
That our background and circumstances
may have influenced who we are,
but, we are responsible for who we become.
I Believe...
That you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret.
It could change your life Forever.
I Believe....
Two people can look at the exact same thing
and see something totally different.
I Believe...
That your life can be changed in a matter of hours
by people who don't even know you.
I Believe...
That even when you think you have no more to give,
when a friend cries out to you -
you will find the strength to help.
I Believe...
That credentials on the wall
do not make you a decent human being.
I Believe...
That the people you care about most in life
are taken from you too soon.
I Believe...
That the happiest of people don't necessarily
have the best of everything...
They just make the most of everything they have.
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